Can we take a break from this relentless pursuit to “upgrade” ourselves into better versions of who we are? Recently, someone wanted to gift me a few books on spiritual healing and self-growth. I would have grabbed them with glee some years back, added them to my “to read” list, …
Bitterness fades gradually once we understand what exactly is important in life. This understanding of our values leads to finding out who we are, and with that awareness comes the softening of resentment and anger. Why We Feel Bitter People often ask at social gatherings, “What do you do? It …
Have you ever had the experience where you felt like you’re stuck with your life not changing, yet your stress, anxiety, or peace of mind changed suddenly? That’s precisely what occurred to one of my clients. She had been monitoring her cortisol (the stress hormone) for months. Initially, they were …
Having spent many years, I recently created an eight-week course on “Adulting.” Last month, I asked a few people’s to share the three to five most significant lessons they had learned about growing up. In order to make it equitable, I did the same assignment myself contemplating on what I’ve …
There will come a time perhaps years or centuries in the future when your name will be mentioned for the last time ever. It’s a still, sobering reflection. But it can make you live differently today. We don’t usually take time to consider our own death. But when we do, …
Have you ever remained silent when something within you loudly shouted no? Perhaps a colleague made a “joke” that was too much. Perhaps a buddy offered advice that felt off. Or perhaps your manager requested you to do something that didn’t feel right. You sensed it first in your body, …
As midterms approach on university campuses, anxiety tends to peak. With exams, essays, and perpetual deadlines in between, staying on top of things seems like a fantasy. But take it from us: having a few easy adulting skills down can turn your days more relaxed, alert, and vibrant. I have …