I’m Tired of Self-Improvement

Can we take a break from this relentless pursuit to “upgrade” ourselves into better versions of who we are? Recently, someone wanted to gift me a few books on spiritual healing and self-growth. I would have grabbed them with glee some years back, added them to my “to read” list, …

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The Secret Burden of Family Expectations

Family expectations can subtly mold who we are quite often without our even being aware of it. Behind the comfort, love, and warmth of family bonding, there may also be an unspoken expectation to fulfill some ideals, traditions, or images. These unstated family norms or “family scripts” can influence our …

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